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sixth rewrite of my bio and still nothing. tear it apart

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I have rewritten this bio six times since June and I am starting to think the problem is me rather than the words. Posting it because this board seems to enjoy taking things apart and I have run out of ideas.

Here is roughly what it says now:

Thirty four, based in the city centre. Open minded, easygoing, curious about a lot of things and up for most of them. Looking for someone genuine to explore with, no pressure, happy to take it slow. I work in something boring so I will spare you. Say hi and let us see where it goes.

That is it. That is the whole thing after six goes at it.

Results: almost no likes, no messages at all in a month, and the handful of matches I have had went nowhere because I did not know what to say either. Which possibly says something about the bio too.

Be blunt. I would rather hear it from you lot than keep doing this on my own for another three months.

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