The board
BDSM contacts, city by city
89 posts across 21 cities. Apps sort people by distance and then hide everything that would tell you whether to bother. These are the posts people would write if the app gave them room. Pick your city.
United States
New York
10 posts
The deepest match queue on the board, and the hardest one to get answered in.
Los Angeles
9 posts
A big pool that the distance filter quietly cuts in half.
Miami
10 posts
Constant churn, and a queue that refreshes faster than it settles.
Houston
0 posts
Wide radius, long drives, and a lot of faceless profiles.
Dallas
0 posts
Discreet by default, and slow to show a face.
United Kingdom
London
10 posts
The deepest queue in Britain, filtered by line rather than by miles.
Manchester
4 posts
Dense for its size, and the same faces come round again.
Liverpool
0 posts
A short stack you can reach the end of in one evening.
Birmingham
0 posts
A wide radius, a green pool, and plenty of first app profiles.
Glasgow
10 posts
Blunt bios and very little patience for a copied opener.
Germany
Spain
France
Netherlands
Brazil
Canada
Australia
Russia
If the board is where you came in
The playbook is the other half of this site, and it assumes nothing. Four places to start.
- Five settings to fix before your first match
- The bio that does the sorting for you
- Telling a person apart from a script
- The unwritten rules once somebody answers
Who posts here
- Dominant
- Leading, and saying in the post what that actually means to them.
- Submissive
- Submitting, on terms set out before anyone opens a conversation.
- Switch
- Both directions, and looking for someone who can follow the change.
- Curious
- Downloaded something, has not decided yet, and is honest about it.
Post yours where somebody is looking for it
A board is only worth the posts on it, and none of these is yours. To put one in front of people near you, and to answer theirs, use the app this site connects to.