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Matching & messages
Matches, openers, dead chats, and what revived them.
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+ New Topic4 topics · 21 posts · 17 members · 2.7k views
| Topic | Replies | Views | Activity |
|---|---|---|---|
| got asked for my experience like it was a job application Matching & messages | 7 | 697 | 10h |
| i ask what they are looking for and get vapour back Matching & messages | 5 | 781 | 11h |
| how honest are you in the first message about being new Matching & messages | 3 | 537 | 9d |
| she takes a week to reply and it is somehow going well Matching & messages | 2 | 710 | 24d |
What the playbook says about this
Matching threads split into two questions: what to say, and what a silence means. The answer to both is usually further up the profile than the message box, which is why the bio and the tag stack are here alongside the etiquette.
- The bio that does the sorting for you
- What a like, a view and a silence each signal
- Where tags read as desires rather than a rule sheet
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