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Going IRL
From app match to first coffee: how it actually went.
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What the playbook says about this
The threads here agree on more than they let on: a short call first, a public place second, and your own way home. The one nobody argues about is the third, which is what you hand over and when.
- Fifteen minutes that settle everything
- A meeting point that gives nothing away
- The staged way to trade contact details
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