brassmonkey_b Opened it #1
Confession first: at one point I had accounts on four different apps at once. Not because I had a strategy, just because every time one went quiet I signed up for another rather than fixing anything.
What that actually looked like day to day was four inboxes and no dating. I would open one, skim, feel behind, open the next, feel behind again. Somebody would send me a nice message and I would leave it two days because answering properly was work and I had three other queues waiting. I was busy and going nowhere.
Deleted three of them in March. Kept the one where the people seemed most like people. Rewrote the profile properly for the first time since I made it, because for once there was only one profile to write.
Since then: fewer matches by a long way, more conversations, and two actual meets, which is two more than the previous six months produced. I am not claiming this is a law of nature. It might just be that the one I kept happens to be the busy one where I live.
So, is concentration actually the thing, or did I get lucky? People running several at once, how do you keep it from turning into admin?
