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there is a filter for everything except the thing i need

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boxroom_bex Opened it #1

Spent an hour last night with the filter screen open like it owed me money.

I can filter by height. I can filter by star sign, which I have opinions about. There are something like forty activity tags I can require or exclude. There is a slider for distance that goes down to a radius smaller than my own neighbourhood.

There is nothing at all for the one thing that has ended every conversation I have had this year, which is how often somebody actually wants to see another person. Not what they are into. How much of it, how often, in whose life. I have had three conversations this spring that were compatible on every single tag and then quietly died the moment it turned out one of us meant a standing weekly thing and the other meant maybe once a month if the diary allows.

Is there a way to get that into a profile without sounding like I am issuing a schedule to strangers? Because it feels like the actual dealbreaker and it is the only thing the app has no box for.

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