My last active time is always the middle of the afternoon
- Looking for
- a dominant who reads a shift pattern as a shift pattern
- Experience
- Two years, one dynamic of eight months, ended over scheduling.
- Around
- the west, Sydney
Every profile on here shows when you were last on it, and mine reliably says two in the afternoon, which people read as somebody who does not work. I start before five in the morning. By two I have finished, eaten, and I am sitting in the only quiet hour of my day while the rest of the city is at a desk.
Twenty seven, out west, submissive, two years in. My one real dynamic ran eight months and ended entirely on timing. She wanted an evening person and I am asleep by nine most nights, and neither of us was clever enough to bend around it. She was not unkind. We were just on different clocks.
So I am after something steady rather than frequent. Weekday afternoons are my whole available life. Once a week reliably beats three times and then a month of silence. Give me things I do daily, a check in that survives a rota, correction spoken plainly at the time rather than saved up.
The one thing I would ask is that you do not treat my hours as a phase or as evidence that I am not serious. It is the opposite. It is the reason I have to be organised about all of this.
Not looking for anybody who needs a Friday night. Not looking to be told I could just change shifts. And not looking for a person who reads a two day silence as a verdict, because it means I slept.