Everything on my phone is silent, and it stays that way
- Looking for
- a submissive who understands why nothing here will ever be on my lock screen
- Experience
- Ten years, two dynamics, both run quietly.
- Around
- the inner west, Sydney
Nothing on this phone makes a sound and nothing shows a preview. The app is renamed, tucked into a folder, and behind its own lock. My children are grown and live their own lives, but they visit, they hand me their phones to look at photographs, and a banner arriving at the wrong moment is a conversation I have no interest in having.
That is the whole reason, and I mention it because discretion on here is usually assumed to mean a partner at home. There is not one. I have been on my own for six years and I intend to stay that way in every sense that shows up on a lease.
Fifty five, inner west, dominant, ten years in, two dynamics, both of them long, both of them known to almost nobody.
What that means for you is that I answer in the evening rather than instantly, that I will not use the voice feature, and that I move to talking properly early because a table has no history. I am warm in person and I have been told the gap is disconcerting. What I want is a submissive who takes discretion seriously without reading it as shame. Standing expectations, a real rhythm, correction that is specific and quiet.
Not looking for anybody who wants to be added anywhere. Not looking for a person who needs constant reassurance. Not looking to explain again that caution is a practice rather than a mood.