Assume everything you send me is a screenshot by Friday
- Looking for
- a submissive who understands discretion without taking it personally
- Experience
- Nine years, three dynamics, all of them quiet.
- Around
- Queens, New York
I work on the assumption that anything either of us types ends up in somebody's group chat. Not because I think you are untrustworthy. Because a phone gets left on a table, a friend gets shown something funny, an account gets sold, and none of that requires anybody to be malicious.
Working that way has made me a better correspondent, oddly. I write things I would be content to read out loud. I do not send photographs. I do not ask for photographs. I move to a face to face conversation early because a table is the only room in this that has no logs.
Forty three, Queens, dominant, nine years in. Three dynamics, all of them run quietly, none of which ever showed up anywhere it should not have.
What I want is a submissive who takes that seriously without reading it as coldness. I am warm in person and I have been told the gap is disconcerting. Discretion is a practice rather than a mood, and the people who do it well are the same people who are careful about everything else, which is the actual reason I care about it.
Not looking for anyone who wants proof of who I am before we speak out loud. Not looking to be added anywhere. Not looking for somebody who thinks caution is a sign of a wife at home, because there is not one, and I got tired of that accusation about two years ago.