I speak to two people at once, maximum, and both of them know it
- Looking for
- somebody who would rather be told the number than guess at it
- Experience
- Eleven years, three arrangements, all long.
- Around
- the west end, Glasgow
Two conversations at a time. That is my limit and I say so in the first message, along with the fact that there is currently one other. Nobody has ever reacted badly to being told. Several have said it is the first time anybody on this app has been straight with them about the number.
The reason is not principle, it is capacity. When I ran six I was doing all of them badly. I was answering out of politeness, forgetting what people had told me, and leaving somebody decent waiting a fortnight for a decision I had already made. Two is the number at which I can actually pay attention, and paying attention is the entire job.
Forty seven, the west end, dominant, eleven years in, three arrangements and none of them under two years.
If the other conversation becomes something, you will hear it from me that week rather than by noticing I have gone quiet.
What I want is a submissive who wants ongoing structure inside a full life. Written expectations, a fixed evening, reporting between. Not looking for anybody who wants exclusivity in week one. Not looking to be one of somebody's forty. Not looking for a person who is only interested while being chased.