I work in a van with two other men, so nothing on my phone makes a sound
- Looking for
- somebody patient about replies that arrive in the evening or not at all
- Experience
- Three years, one arrangement of eight months.
- Around
- out towards Lanarkshire, Glasgow
I spend my working day in a van with two other men and my phone sits on the dash where anybody can see it. So: no notifications, no previews, no badge, and the app renamed and buried. It lives face down and it stays that way from seven in the morning until I am home.
That is not intrigue. It is that these two are decent lads and I have no interest in explaining any of this to them or to anybody they drink with, which in this city is a list that includes people I went to school with and one of my brother's mates.
Thirty three, out towards Lanarkshire, submissive, three years in, one arrangement that ran eight months and ended when she moved south.
What that means for you is that I answer in the evening, properly, once, rather than in fragments all day. I have been read as uninterested for it more than once. What I want is a weekly arrangement with standing expectations, things I do daily, and a check in that does not need me to be free at two in the afternoon.
Not looking for anybody who needs an answer within the hour. Not looking to send photographs from a work van. Not looking for a person who reads a quiet day as a message.