My last active time says five in the morning, and that is exactly right
- Looking for
- a dominant who reads a rota as a rota and not as indifference
- Experience
- Two years, one dynamic of nine months, ended on scheduling.
- Around
- the east end, Glasgow
The app shows everybody when you were last on it and mine reliably says five in the morning. I finish a night shift at four, I eat something, and the only quiet hour I get is the one where the rest of this city is asleep. People read that as somebody unstable. It is a warehouse rota.
Twenty nine, the east end, submissive, two years in. My one real dynamic ran nine months and ended entirely on timing. He wanted somebody at eight in the evening and at eight in the evening I am at work, every night, and neither of us was clever enough to bend around it.
So I am after steady rather than frequent. Once a week reliably beats three times and then a month of nothing. Things I do daily. A check in by message. Rules that survive a bad rota rather than falling apart the first time it changes.
The one thing I would ask is that a two day silence is not read as a verdict. It means I slept. That has been misread three times and once by somebody I liked a great deal.
Not looking for anybody who needs a Friday. Not looking to be told I could simply change shifts. Not looking for a person who thinks my hours are a phase.