One perfectly normal word in my bio and the account was gone for a week
- Looking for
- a submissive who understands this whole thing sits on somebody else's server
- Experience
- Nine years, two dynamics, one still running.
- Around
- the east end, Glasgow
In March my profile was taken down for a week over a single word. An ordinary word, used the way anybody here uses it, flagged by something automatic that had clearly never read a sentence in its life. The appeal produced two identical replies from a machine and then, eventually, a restoration with no explanation.
It cost me two conversations that were going somewhere and it permanently changed how I think about all of this. Everything on here sits inside a company's product. The account is not mine, the conversations are not mine, and any of it can vanish on a Tuesday because a filter did not like a word.
Forty four, the east end, dominant, nine years in, two dynamics, one of which has run three years on one evening a week.
Practically that means I move to talking properly early, I keep nothing that matters in a chat window, and I do not build four months of correspondence on something a moderation queue can delete.
What I want is a structured arrangement with somebody who has time for it. Not looking for anybody who needs half a year of typing first. Not looking to be somebody's evening reading. Not looking for a person who cannot meet inside a fortnight for reasons that keep changing.