The sign up made me choose and I think I chose the wrong word
- Looking for
- somebody who will help me work it out without deciding it for me
- Experience
- None. Two months on the app and no conclusions.
- Around
- the east end, Glasgow
The sign up would not let me past until I picked one of four words. I sat there for a genuinely long time and then chose one because the screen would not go away. It has been on my profile ever since, it is probably wrong, and I have no idea how a person would find out other than by doing something about it.
Thirty three, the east end, no experience of any kind. I have read a great deal, which I now understand is the least useful preparation available, because everything I have read describes how a thing feels and I have no way to check my own answer against it.
What I would like is to talk to somebody who has been doing this a long time and is not bothered by a person who does not know yet. I do not want to be assigned a role by whoever writes to me first. I would like to arrive at one slowly, and I accept that might take a year.
Not looking for anybody who opens with a list of what they would do to me. Not looking for a person who says I obviously am one thing on the basis of nothing. Not looking to meet anywhere private for a first conversation, now or in six months.