Anything you send me should be something you could stand to have shared
- Looking for
- a dominant who understands how quickly things travel in a city this size
- Experience
- Seven years, three arrangements, all of them quiet.
- Around
- the west end, Glasgow
Two years ago a screenshot of somebody's conversation went round a group of people I know within about a day. Nothing in it was shameful. It did not need to be. It was enough that everybody could identify who had written it, and she has not been on any of this since.
So I write on the assumption that everything I type will be read by a third person eventually. That has made me better at this, oddly. I write things I would be content to have read aloud. I do not send photographs and I do not ask for any. I move to talking face to face early, because a table keeps no record of itself.
Thirty eight, the west end, submissive, seven years in, three arrangements and not one of them ever surfaced anywhere it should not have. Two of those people I still see occasionally and neither of us has ever had a reason to be uncomfortable about it.
What I want is a dominant who takes that seriously without treating it as coldness. Discretion is a habit rather than a mood, and the people who are good at it turn out to be careful about everything else too.
Not looking for anybody who wants photographs in week one. Not looking to be added anywhere. Not looking for a person who thinks caution means I am ashamed, because I am not, I just know how small this city is.