I learned all of this on message boards and now it is a deck of cards
- Looking for
- patience with somebody who is fluent in the wrong medium
- Experience
- Twenty years in, then a long gap, and now completely lost.
- Around
- the north shore, Sydney
Everything I know about doing this properly I learned somewhere you had to write in paragraphs. You posted, people replied over days, you read a person's arguments for two years before you ever met them, and by the time you did you knew exactly who they were. Now it is a deck of cards and eleven words under a photograph, and I am fifty six and hopeless at it.
The skills do not transfer at all. I write four hundred words and people read the first line. I ask a real question and get a reaction to a photograph. It is not that anybody is shallow. It is that the medium rewards speed and I only ever learned to be slow.
Fifty six, the north shore, submissive, twenty odd years of this with a decade of nothing in the middle while my marriage ended and my parents got old.
What I want is a dominant who also finds the format thin and is willing to move to something longer early. Write to me properly and I will write back properly. I am experienced, I am specific about what I want, and I am not fragile.
Not looking for anybody who wants to teach me the app, because I understand it, I just dislike it. Not looking to be told my age is unusual here. And not looking for a person who cannot manage more than a sentence, since that is the entire problem I am describing.