Typing. Typing. Then nothing, for eleven days
- Looking for
- a dominant who finishes sentences and says when they are done
- Experience
- Five years, one dynamic of two years that ended well.
- Around
- the Jersey side, New York
The three dots came up. They stayed up for a while. Then they went away and nothing arrived, and eleven days later the account was gone. I have watched that exact sequence four times this year and I have decided it is worth a whole paragraph, because it is the specific way this app hurts people and nobody puts it in a bio.
Forty two, the Jersey side, submissive, five years in. My one long dynamic ran two years and ended properly, in a conversation, with both of us upset and neither of us confused. I would like the next one to end that way too, whenever it does, which tells you the kind of person I am looking for.
What I want is ordinary and specific. A dominant who is present rather than intense. Standing expectations I can meet on a bad week. Being told when something is not good enough, in words, at the time.
I can be in the city inside forty minutes if I leave before the traffic sets in, and I am realistic that this puts me outside a lot of people's radius. Worth it, in my view, for somebody who answers.
Not looking for a correspondence that never becomes a meeting. Not looking for anyone who disappears and comes back three weeks later as though nothing happened. If you decide against me, one line is enough. I will not argue and I will not write again.