Every filter here is about a face and I do not select on faces
- Looking for
- somebody whose paragraphs are better than their photographs
- Experience
- Eighteen years, three dynamics, the longest seven.
- Around
- Brooklyn, New York
Every filter this app gives me is about appearance. Height, age, distance, pictures. The thing I actually choose on cannot be photographed and there is no slider for it, so I have stopped using the filters altogether and now read instead, which is slower and works far better.
I choose people by how they write. Not correctness, and certainly not length. Whether the sentences are theirs. Whether somebody can say a thing that does not flatter them. Whether a question gets answered or gets performed around. In eighteen years that has predicted compatibility better than every other signal put together, and I have tested it, because for a while I did it the other way.
Fifty two, Brooklyn, dominant, three dynamics, the longest seven years, ended by a move rather than by anything either of us did.
What I want is a submissive who is articulate and a bit stubborn, who will tell me when a rule is not working instead of quietly failing it. I run things with a lot of language: instructions given precisely, reports read closely, correction that is specific.
Not looking for anyone whose profile is four photographs and a single word. That is not a judgement of you, it is an accurate statement that I have nothing to go on. Not looking to be sent an album. And not looking for somebody who mistakes formality for coldness.