I paid for the upgraded tier for three months and nothing changed at all
- Looking for
- someone who is not going to tell me to buy the better one
- Experience
- Five years, two dynamics, both good, both ended well.
- Around
- Brickell, Miami
The theory was that I was being buried. Pay for the better tier, get seen, get answered. So I paid for three months and the only measurable change was that I could now see a list of people who had liked me, which turned out to be almost entirely people I had already passed on for reasons I still agreed with. Same queue, same silence, slightly lighter bank account and considerably more irritation.
Thirty three, submissive, I work in logistics, Brickell, five years in and two dynamics behind me that both ended properly rather than by disappearance.
I mention it because somebody will tell me to try the other paid one, and I want to head that off. The problem is not the tier. The problem is that everybody on here has more matches than attention, myself included, and no feature fixes that. What fixes it is writing something that could only be about one person, which is what this is.
I want a long arrangement with real obligations in it. Daily contact, weekly structure, and a dominant who thinks about the whole week rather than the evening. I am steady, I am not dramatic, and I have never once ghosted anybody. I do not want intensity in the first month and I do not want anybody who calls this a hobby.