Talking is the whole of what I want at the moment, honestly
- Looking for
- correspondence with no assumption about where it goes
- Experience
- None. Some very good conversations and nothing beyond them.
- Around
- Brickell, Miami
What I want right now is to talk about this with somebody who knows what they are doing, and I am aware that saying so out loud makes me a certain kind of nuisance on an app designed to arrange meetings. So I am declaring it rather than discovering it three weeks in with somebody who has been patiently waiting for the conversation to turn into a plan.
Forty one, no experience, I am an architectural technician, Brickell, divorced two years and living alone for the first time since my twenties.
The honest position is that I am interested, I have thought about it constantly for about fifteen years, and I do not yet know whether I want to do any of it or only to understand it. Those seem like different things and I would rather find out through conversation than by turning up somewhere and hoping.
If that is a waste of your time, I understand entirely and I would rather you closed this now. If you happen to enjoy explaining things to somebody who asks good questions and does not flirt with everything, I am genuinely good company. And if I do work out that I want more than talking, you would be the first to know, because I am not capable of hiding anything for very long.