From June nothing in my calendar is real, and I plan around that
- Looking for
- a dominant who can hold something loosely for four months
- Experience
- Nine years, two dynamics, one of them still a friendship.
- Around
- up towards Fort Lauderdale, Miami
Half the year I am an easy person to make plans with. The other half I am the person who cancels, because I handle claims and when the weather turns my life is not mine. Last September I broke four arrangements in three weeks, and every one of them was genuine, and by the fourth the person on the other end had stopped believing me. I do not blame him at all.
Fifty two, submissive, north of the city, nine years in and past being embarrassed about any of it. Two dynamics, one long, one short, and the long one still writes to me at Christmas.
So the thing I am asking for is unusual and I want it stated plainly. I need somebody who can hold a dynamic loosely for four months a year without deciding it has ended. Tasks that survive a cancelled evening. Rules I can keep from a hotel room in another county. Contact that is steady even when meeting is not possible.
From November to May I am completely available and I make up for the rest of it, which I know is not how anybody would design this. What I do not want is somebody who needs a fixed weekly evening all year, because I will fail that and we will both be miserable about it by October.