Please do not call me anything until we have actually met
- Looking for
- a submissive who understands that respect is not vocabulary
- Experience
- Sixteen years, three arrangements, all of them long.
- Around
- Brickell, Miami
Within about an hour of matching, a certain kind of person starts using a title in every message. I know it is meant warmly. It still tells me that the whole thing is happening in somebody's head rather than between two people, because nothing has been agreed, nothing has been earned, and we have not so much as heard each other's voices. I ask them to stop, and about half of them cannot.
Forty five, dominant, I work in commercial property, Brickell, sixteen years in with three arrangements behind me, none shorter than three years.
What I actually want in the first weeks is unglamorous. Your name for these purposes, your schedule, what you are looking for in plain words, and a conversation about what you have already tried. If we get on, we meet somewhere ordinary for an hour with nothing attached to it. Titles, protocol and everything else follow later, in that order, once they mean something.
I am not interested in anybody who wants to skip that. I am not interested in performing authority over a text window for somebody's evening. And I am not looking for anyone who is going to be disappointed that the first month is mostly logistics and questions, because that is exactly what it is, and it is the part that makes the rest work.