No plan within a fortnight and I unmatch, and I say so first
- Looking for
- somebody who treats a match as the start of something
- Experience
- Twelve years, four dynamics, two of them long.
- Around
- Brickell, Miami
I clear my list every second Sunday. Anything with no plan attached to it goes, regardless of how pleasant the conversation was, and I have started saying so in the first message because doing it quietly made me look like the ghost. It is not a punishment and it is not a technique. A list of two hundred names is not a social life, it is a filing problem, and I refuse to have one.
Forty four, dominant, I run a small contracting outfit, Brickell, twelve years in this with four dynamics behind me and no interest at all in starting a fifth badly.
What I offer is direct and unmysterious. I decide things and I explain them. I keep to what I say. I expect the same in return, starting with an answer to a straightforward question about your week. If you want a long arrangement with real structure in it I am extremely good at that, and I have references in the ordinary sense of people who would speak well of me.
What I do not want: anybody who is enjoying the correspondence as the whole event, anybody who needs to be chased, and anybody who is here for a few weeks and looking for a souvenir. I am also not interested in being addressed by a title by somebody I have never met. That is earned in a room, not in a text box.