Sixty three, and everything I know about this came off a screen
- Looking for
- a patient dominant willing to be the first person I do any of this with
- Experience
- None in practice. Two years of reading and asking questions.
- Around
- the east side, Los Angeles
I have had this on my phone for two years and I have never met anybody from it. What I have done is read. I have read this board and three others, I have asked strangers polite questions and been answered generously by most of them, and I have built an understanding of something I have wanted since long before there was an application for it. The understanding is entirely theoretical and I am aware of what that is worth.
Sixty three, the east side, widowed four years ago, submissive, and starting from nothing at an age where people assume you have a history.
What I would like is somebody experienced and unhurried who is willing to be the first person I do this with in a room. I do not need to be eased in gently as though I might break. I need to be told what is expected, given a chance to get it wrong, and corrected without a performance being made of it.
I drive, I have time, my week is my own, and I am not in a hurry.
Not looking for anybody who finds a woman my age novel and says so in the first message, which has happened more than you would think. Not looking for anything at a distance. And not looking to be taught by somebody who has been at this for six months, however kindly meant.