My profile gives my travel time in minutes, by hour of the day
- Looking for
- somebody who reads the numbers and answers with their own
- Experience
- Six years, two arrangements, both of them weekly and both good.
- Around
- the east side, Los Angeles
Everybody on here is described in miles and nobody in this city lives in miles. So I did something slightly ridiculous and put a small table in my bio: how long it takes me to reach four different parts of town, at ten in the morning and at six in the evening. The gap between the two numbers is often forty minutes. People find it funny for about a day and then they start answering with their own.
Thirty eight, the east side, submissive, six years in, two arrangements behind me and both of them ran weekly for over a year.
The reason I bothered is that every arrangement I have had was decided by that arithmetic and not by anything either of us felt. The good one worked because we could reach each other on a weekday evening without either of us being ruined by the time we arrived. The one that failed did not fail over anything interesting.
I want a weekly dynamic with real structure in it. Rules that continue through the days between. Somebody who will tell me plainly when I have got something wrong.
Not looking for anyone who says distance does not matter to them, because it has mattered to every single person who said that to me. Not looking for anything that has to happen on a Saturday night. And please do not ask me to be flexible about a two hour round trip on a work night.