If your profile will not say which part of London, I already know
- Looking for
- somebody specific about the ordinary facts, starting with geography
- Experience
- Nine years, three dynamics, the longest of them four years.
- Around
- north of the river, London
A profile that says London and nothing else is telling me something, and after nine years I know what it is about eight times out of ten. It means somebody who is not really planning to meet anybody, or somebody who is far enough out that they know naming it costs them, or somebody who wants to see what is on offer before deciding how much effort is warranted. I have been wrong about this occasionally. Not often.
Forty five, north of the river, submissive, nine years in, three arrangements with the longest running four years.
I say my own part of the city in my first line and I would like the same back. It is not an address, it is not a risk, and if you cannot say a general direction to somebody you are considering meeting, the rest of this is going to be exhausting.
What I want is a proper ongoing arrangement. Written expectations, a standing weekly evening, tasks in between, and correction that arrives at the time rather than a week later.
Not looking for anyone who is vague on principle. Not looking for somebody who wants me to guess what they want and then be graded on it. And not looking for a conversation that lasts a month before either of us has established whether being in the same room is even possible.