Here is the ask, in line one, since nobody else on here manages it
- Looking for
- a weekly arrangement with rules I check in against, nothing occasional
- Experience
- Five years, two dynamics, the longer one two years.
- Around
- the south side, Glasgow
A weekly arrangement, a fixed evening, standing rules I report against, and correction said out loud at the time. That is the whole ask and it took me four years on this app to work out that putting it first is the only thing that has ever changed my results.
Before that I had a bio like everybody else's. Open minded, easy going, looking to see where things go. I have since read that sentence on about two hundred profiles here and I could not tell you a single thing about any of the people who wrote it, including my past self.
Thirty four, the south side, submissive, five years in. Two dynamics that mattered. The longer one ran two years and ended when she moved for work, and we ended it in one conversation, which is the standard I now hold everything to.
What I do not want is equally specific. No impact of any kind. Nothing that has to happen on a Friday night. Nobody who wants to negotiate the terms after agreeing to them. And nobody who reads a plainly written post as somebody who is difficult, which happened twice last year and told me everything I needed about both of them.