Forty tick boxes and none of them is what I am actually for
- Looking for
- authority and being useful, with nothing sexual attached
- Experience
- Nine years, three arrangements, none of them sexual.
- Around
- Noord, Amsterdam
The sign up walks you through about forty things you might be interested in, and I ticked almost none of them, so the app decided I was a person with no interests at all. What I want is not on the list because it is not an activity. It is being answerable to somebody.
Forty six, Noord, submissive, nine years in, three real arrangements and not one of them with a sexual element. What I respond to is being given a standard and held to it. Reporting in. Doing something properly because somebody who matters is going to check it. Two of those arrangements ended for entirely ordinary reasons and one is now a friendship of a decade.
I am aware of how this reads in a queue where every other profile is a list of implements, and I know a proportion of you assume I will change my mind eventually. I will not. I am not repressed and I am not waiting to be unlocked.
What I would like is a dominant of any gender who wants a service arrangement with clear terms, a regular rhythm and a review every few months.
Not looking for somebody who agrees to this in writing and renegotiates it in a room. Not looking for a scene. Not looking to be anybody's interesting exception, which I have been twice and did not enjoy either time.