Most filters stop at fifty five. I am sixty one, so here is a post
- Looking for
- a submissive man, ongoing, who is not looking for a mother or a novelty
- Experience
- Since my thirties. Widowed nine years, one dynamic since.
- Around
- the east end, Toronto
Most people set the upper end of the age filter to fifty five. I am sixty one. The practical effect is that I do not exist for most of this city no matter what I write, and no amount of effort on my part alters a number sitting in somebody else's settings.
I am not objecting to anybody's preferences. Everyone is entitled to them and I have my own. I am pointing at something mechanical that took me a year to understand, during which I kept rewriting a profile that was never being shown.
So a post is the only route around it, and here I am.
Sixty one, dominant, east end, and I have been doing this since my thirties, which is long enough to have watched the vocabulary change twice and the etiquette change more than that. Widowed nine years. One dynamic since, four years, which ended when he moved to be near his daughter and we both agreed it was the right decision.
I want a submissive man, ongoing, weekly, and I am content for him to be a good deal younger provided he is not after a mother, a wallet or a novelty. I have had all three approaches this year and they are identifiable by the second message.
I run things quietly. Rules, standards, correction that is spoken. Nothing that shows. I cook well and I expect help with it.