Forty options at sign up and none of them is what I am actually for
- Looking for
- authority and being useful, with nothing sexual attached to it
- Experience
- Ten years, three arrangements, none of them sexual.
- Around
- the northern quarter, Manchester
Signing up means working through about forty things you might be into, and I ticked almost none of them, which the app read as a person with no interests at all. What I want is not on the list because it is not an activity. It is being answerable to somebody.
Forty seven, the northern quarter, submissive, ten years in, three real arrangements and not one with a sexual element. What I respond to is being given a standard and held to it. Reporting in. Doing something properly because a person who matters is going to check. Two of those ended for ordinary reasons and one is now a friendship of nine years.
I know how that reads in a queue where every second profile is a list of equipment, and I know a proportion of you assume I will come round eventually. I will not. I am not repressed and I am not waiting to be unlocked, and anybody arriving with that theory will be disappointed slowly.
What I would like is a dominant of any gender who wants a service arrangement with clear terms, a regular rhythm, and a review every few months.
Not looking for somebody who agrees to this in writing and renegotiates it in a room. Not looking for a scene. Not looking to be anybody's interesting exception, which I have been twice.