I put my commute at the top of my profile and everything improved
- Looking for
- a submissive whose week has a shape that fits into mine
- Experience
- Six years, two dynamics, both of them built around difficult schedules.
- Around
- the east side, Los Angeles
The first line of my profile is not about what I am into. It says which two hours of which days I am realistically free, and how long it takes me to get to three parts of the city. It is the least seductive opening imaginable and it has roughly tripled the number of conversations that reach a meeting, because the people who write to me have already decided that the shape of my week is survivable.
Thirty eight, the east side, dominant, six years in. Two arrangements, both of them with people whose schedules were as awkward as mine, and both of them better for it.
I am up at half past four and asleep by nine. That single fact has ended more of these than any incompatibility of taste ever has, so I put it where it cannot be missed rather than three weeks in.
What I want is a submissive interested in a structured ongoing arrangement built around early mornings and weekday evenings, with the sort of daily contact that fits in the gaps of a working life. Standing rules. Real tasks. Regular honest reporting.
Not looking for anybody whose only free time is late at night. Not looking for someone who will treat my hours as a phase or a problem to be solved. And not looking for a person who says the schedule is fine and has not actually looked at what it would mean in November.