First meetings happen near me. After that I will travel gladly
- Looking for
- somebody who does not read a practical rule as a power move
- Experience
- Seven years, two dynamics, both begun exactly this way.
- Around
- the east side, Los Angeles
First meeting, my side of town, in the daytime. After that I will drive to you as often as you drive to me and I will not keep score about it. The rule exists because I have twice spent two hours in a car for a conversation that was clearly over in ten minutes, and there is a particular flavour of resentment that comes from driving home from that which I refuse to feel again.
Forty, the east side, dominant, seven years in, two arrangements and both of them started with somebody agreeing to this without a fuss.
I am aware of how it can read. It is not a loyalty test and I am not trying to establish anything by making you travel. If the geography is genuinely against you, say so and I will meet in the middle or come to you. The only thing I will not do is pretend that the first meeting is worth an hour and ten minutes of my Tuesday when neither of us knows anything yet.
What I want is a submissive interested in something ongoing and quite structured. Standing rules, regular contact, a fixed evening, and a proper review every couple of months.
Not looking for anybody who wants to be pushed hard early. Not looking for anyone who cannot say what they want without being asked four times. And not looking to be somebody's first attempt at working out whether they are into this at all.