I am here two weeks in three, and the app has never understood that
- Looking for
- a submissive whose arrangement can survive a fortnight of distance
- Experience
- Twelve years, two dynamics, both conducted around travel.
- Around
- the south, Amsterdam
My work takes me out of the country roughly one week in three, and the app deals with this by simply relocating me. My profile appears in whichever city I woke up in, my distance resets, and people I have been writing to here watch me apparently move abroad without explanation. Two people have concluded I was lying about where I live.
I now say it in the first line. Based here, away regularly, and the away weeks are not negotiable because they are the job that pays for the rest of it.
Forty five, the south, dominant, twelve years in, both of my dynamics built around exactly this pattern and both of them worked.
What makes it work is structure rather than contact. Things you do daily whether or not I am in the country. A report I read when I land. A fixed evening in the weeks I am here, protected properly, not squeezed in around a delayed flight. And a clear understanding that a gap is a gap, not a punishment and not a test.
Not looking for anybody who needs daily contact to feel secure, which is a legitimate need and not one I can meet. Not looking for a person who agrees to this in June and is hurt by it in October. Not looking to be checked up on.