I reached the end of the app twice this year
- Looking for
- one submissive person, long, weekly, reviewed every couple of months
- Experience
- Thirteen years, none of it inside my marriage, five years since.
- Around
- North York, Toronto
I have reached the end of the app twice this year. Both times it began showing me the same eleven faces in a slightly different order, and both times I did what everybody does, which is install a second one and find the same eleven people already waiting there.
That is what this city actually amounts to once you filter for anything specific. Not six million people. Eleven, plus a slow trickle of new arrivals in September and again in January.
I mention it because the scarcity changes how people behave and nobody admits it. Everyone is faintly reluctant to close a conversation properly, because the pool is visibly finite and no one wants to burn a card they might want back in March. That is why so much of this ends in a fade rather than a sentence.
Forty four, dominant, North York, thirteen years in. A long marriage inside which none of this existed, and five years since that have mostly been good.
I would far rather be told no. I am genuinely hard to offend, and if we exchange six messages and you decide I am not it, saying so costs you nothing and gives me back an hour a week.
I am looking for one submissive person, long, weekly, with a real structure and an actual review every couple of months. Run as an arrangement rather than a romance, at least to begin with.