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No face on the profile, and I know exactly what it costs

Posted as no_face_in_the_queue, 22 August 2026

Looking for
a dominant woman comfortable with a partner who is never photographed
Experience
Eleven years, one arrangement that ran five of them.
Around
North York, Toronto

There is no face on my profile and I know precisely what that costs. Fewer people are shown it, fewer of those write, and a good share of the ones who do open with an instruction to send one.

Thirty six, submissive, North York, and the reason is not mysterious. I work with the public in a job where being recognised in this context would end it. There is no version of my life in which my face sits in a queue that four hundred people thumb through every evening on a train.

What I will do, and have done many times, is send a photograph privately after a real conversation. I have never refused anybody who asked in a way that suggested they had read a word I wrote.

Eleven years in this, all of it discreet, most of it good. One arrangement that ran five years and ended amicably when she remarried and moved out to the west end. I am not new and I am not nervous.

I am looking for a dominant woman who is at ease with a partner who will not be photographed, will not appear in anything and will never be tagged in anything. That rules out a certain kind of person and I would rather it happened here than in month four.

Please do not send the paragraph about how you cannot trust a man with no face. I have read it perhaps forty times.

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