My profile got screenshotted into a work group, so I rebuilt everything
- Looking for
- somebody careful with what other people put in writing
- Experience
- Four years, one dynamic, ended badly and not for kink reasons.
- Around
- Wynwood, Miami
A picture of my profile turned up in a group chat belonging to people I work alongside. Not maliciously, as far as I can tell, and not by anybody I had spoken to. Somebody recognised the tattoo on my arm, took a screenshot and thought it was funny. I found out three weeks later from a friend who thought I already knew. That was in January and I have been rebuilding how I use this thing ever since.
Thirty three, switch, I work in hospitality across a lot of different places, Wynwood, four years in this. One dynamic, ended for ordinary reasons that had nothing to do with any of it.
What changed: no identifying marks in any photograph, no mention of where I work, and a rule that I do not put anything in a message I would mind being read aloud. I am not paranoid and I have not gone faceless. I am just no longer casual.
What I am looking for is an ongoing arrangement, both directions, with somebody who takes the same view without needing it explained. If your instinct on hearing that story is that I am overreacting, we are not going to suit each other. And if your instinct is to ask who did it, I do not know, and I have decided that not knowing is survivable.