Your opening message is the entire interview and most people fail it
- Looking for
- a submissive who can write one specific paragraph
- Experience
- Ten years, three dynamics, one that ran five years.
- Around
- Wynwood, Miami
Out of the last forty opening messages I received, thirty one were a greeting and nothing else, six named an activity from my tag list, two asked whether I was real, and one referred to something I had actually written. I answered that one within the hour and we have been talking for a month. This is not a high bar and I am genuinely puzzled that it works as a filter, but it does, so I am publishing it.
Thirty six, dominant, I manage a warehouse, Wynwood, ten years in this with three dynamics behind me and one of those long enough to have taught me most of what I know.
What I want is a submissive interested in an ongoing arrangement with structure through the week rather than a scene at the weekend. I set clear expectations, I write them down, and I revisit them when they stop fitting. I am patient with beginners and impatient with vagueness, which is an unusual combination and it is the honest one.
What I do not want: an opening that could have been sent to anybody, a request for a photograph before a conversation, or a title in the first exchange. And if you are here for a fortnight, please say so at the top, because I will find out at the wrong moment otherwise and neither of us will enjoy it.