Four on, four off, and this app has no idea what to do with that
- Looking for
- a dominant who can plan against a rota instead of a week
- Experience
- Three years, one arrangement of ten months, ended on scheduling.
- Around
- Stockport, Manchester
Four days on, four off, rotating, so my week is not a week. Every fortnight my free days move. Whatever pattern we agree in March will be wrong by April, and there is no way to express any of that on a profile, so people assume I am being difficult when I cannot commit to a Thursday.
Thirty one, Stockport, submissive, three years in. My one arrangement ran ten months and ended entirely on this. She was not unkind about it. She wanted a fixed evening, which is a completely reasonable thing to want, and I cannot provide one and never will be able to.
So what I am after is an arrangement built on frequency rather than on a named day. Twice a fortnight, whenever those days fall, agreed a fortnight ahead when the rota comes out. Things I do daily that do not care what shift I am on. A check in by message rather than in a room.
The one thing I would ask is that a four day silence is not treated as a verdict. It means I am at work and then asleep.
Not looking for anybody who needs a regular Friday. Not looking to be told I could ask for different shifts. Not looking for a person who reads my hours as a lack of interest.